lost my will to live

[ElroyJetson]

You're going to have to confront what it is that's making you feel this way. Happiness is really a state of being more so than a state of mind. And what I mean by that is when your "being" is happy you are blissful 24/7.

Long story short, been suicidal & severaly depressed a large amount of times and didn't start feeling Happy until I took time to appreciate what I love while also building up a routine of spirituality.

This exact route probably isn't going to work exactly for you but this is where actually digging into the meat of your issues falls into play. 

Example: "My girl is always vocally abusing me. I should probably break up with her, cut off all contact/block her messages" <- This works but may be completely different in another situation, for someone else but the fact that they actually took out time to understand themselves, what they wanted/liked/support, & what the other party involved is doing created a state of understanding which leads to finally saying "Enough is enough, I'm tired of feeling like shit so I will cut out the bullshit & remember to try my best every single day from here on out."

Some more practical shit: Cut out low quality food, do an entertainment purge, work out, & start getting more involved in group activities. But do all that shit consistently for 3+ months.

Fixing problems is really how long can you stay making the right decisions before self sabotaging or having a mindset geared towards being a victim.

Edited by ElroyJetson, 06 October 2019 - 10:53 PM.

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[blixtwix]

i shouldnt have to treat my life like a fight in a video game, only to be 'just fine' ygm?

 

Yeah I agree, n life's unfair like that. But it's still better than being miserable. 

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[paperface4]

Look on the bright side you haven't posted a single description of whats wrong with your life, are you in debts or is too much burden for you going through stress. If its just your having an bad day dont worry you will get through it same thing to happened me, i just keep myself focused to stay going through others messages and hope they can suicide themselves.

[blixtwix]

having to go to soooo much effort .... just to keep yourself from feeling miserable .... will make you miserable

 If your goals are unachievable to such an extent, maybe it's time to re-prioritize and come up with new goals.

 

Personally, I don't really care when people disagree or dislike aspects of who I am, and I only bother being around those who do appropriate me, so I suppose I can't relate to someone seemingly caring a lot about how others perceive and interact with them.

[CouZer]

We all experience this kind of thing in our life m8, just keep on living and don't think about negative stuff, if you have somth that you love doin, just keep on doin it, if not find it. I know you'll find that will soon

[mudjomba]

Try to visit remote areas where you will meet the poor men there example in Africa

[vet211]

imagine being sad and shit, but suddenly something bad happens and you wish that you were in past when that shit have not happened, you'll say that past was good and you were dumb that you felt sad then

Edited by vet211, 11 October 2019 - 09:04 PM.