Always something bad happens to me and I'm getting used to it

[CaptainLevi02]

Long story short, I'm consider myself a good person. All I do is work, go straight home, and give whatever my girl needs to make her happy. I know that I don't deserve bad things thats happening to me.
I cant believe im making a thread of my life of how unfortunate I am. There's too much to list. I just wanted to tell everyone that I'm on the verge on giving up.



Update: May 18 - i finally try to be patience about the situation im goinf through until someone broke into my car and took all my stuff.




PS. This is a cry for help, cause im done with all of these shit. People around me are inconsiderate and ungrateful af.




EDIT: I'm trying hard just to have a stable things, I never asked the person above to have great things like expensive cars or nice house.

Edited by CaptainLevi02, 19 May 2020 - 02:18 AM.

[Darkness]

What bad things are happening to you?

[CaptainLevi02]

What bad things are happening to you?

 

Things like; someone stole my wallet with my whole rent money on it (I'm a essential worker) with my 3 months old son wic card (state help for milk) 

My car is breaking down

My bills are due

Girl unsatisfied and being toxic 

I couldnt go back to college

and more

[Cake]

Things like; someone stole my wallet with my whole rent money on it (I'm a essential worker) with my 3 months old son wic card (state help for milk) 

My car is breaking down

My bills are due

Girl unsatisfied and being toxic 

I couldnt go back to college

and more

 

chipping in here.

 

 

This is life. I know it's blunt and quite rude, but to get to the point this is exactly as I said. 

Unfortunately life isn't a breezy, easy life. It's hard. Though every obstacle you pass by and keep kicking, is an obstacle in life you defeated.

 

You may have a large sum of problems at the minute and seem to be in a bit of a sludge but you will get out of it! It's not permanent whatsoever. 

 

 

Car is breaking down? - That's okay, it happens.. to literally nearly everyone? (Including me) there is a fix for this, numerous. Mechanic, walking, bike, public transportation. It's okay, you will get it fixed sooner or later. 

 

Bills due? - During these times bills may seem more daunting than usual. Every country is different, inquire if you're able to get extensions if you're struggling to pay. Ask for a payment plan even. (Sorry no clue, all Countries are different with operations so apologies if this isn't available) 

 

Girl Troubles? - Depending on it all, if it's toxic you should leave. It's not good for your mental health, and at the end of the day, you are the most important person to look after. Look after yourself first than do other things. If she's causing you to feel down, sad and what not constantly, leave. As hard as it is, it'll do more damage than good staying. 

 

Couldn't go back to college? - Curious as to why? I don't have much experience with Overseas College and what goes down here, but they have to have a good reason to refuse you to go back, right?   

 

 

All problems will have a solution, you may have to dig a bit deeper but there is always a solution and resolution. You may be a bit down now, but it'll turn around soon. It's never, ever permanent. 

Don't give up, I'm sure you have your whole life ahead of you, as I say. Short-term pain, long term gain. Buckle down for a bit, get through this mess and I'm sure you'll get something a lot better soon. 

Life won't ever be easy, but it'll test how well you do under pressure, you'll strengthen yourself after all problems mentally, even if you don't notice it. 

 

Also, don't look at these problems all together, but separate. Go through and fix them, one-by-one. Just focus on one and progress, even if it's slowly. Progress, is progress. 

Reach out to a close friend even, just to have a chat and nothing more. Or family.

 

Best of luck,

Always a PM away if you need anything (:

[CaptainLevi02]

chipping in here.

 

 

This is life. I know it's blunt and quite rude, but to get to the point this is exactly as I said. 

Unfortunately life isn't a breezy, easy life. It's hard. Though every obstacle you pass by and keep kicking, is an obstacle in life you defeated.

 

You may have a large sum of problems at the minute and seem to be in a bit of a sludge but you will get out of it! It's not permanent whatsoever. 

 

 

Car is breaking down? - That's okay, it happens.. to literally nearly everyone? (Including me) there is a fix for this, numerous. Mechanic, walking, bike, public transportation. It's okay, you will get it fixed sooner or later. 

 

Bills due? - During these times bills may seem more daunting than usual. Every country is different, inquire if you're able to get extensions if you're struggling to pay. Ask for a payment plan even. (Sorry no clue, all Countries are different with operations so apologies if this isn't available) 

 

Girl Troubles? - Depending on it all, if it's toxic you should leave. It's not good for your mental health, and at the end of the day, you are the most important person to look after. Look after yourself first than do other things. If she's causing you to feel down, sad and what not constantly, leave. As hard as it is, it'll do more damage than good staying. 

 

Couldn't go back to college? - Curious as to why? I don't have much experience with Overseas College and what goes down here, but they have to have a good reason to refuse you to go back, right?   

 

 

All problems will have a solution, you may have to dig a bit deeper but there is always a solution and resolution. You may be a bit down now, but it'll turn around soon. It's never, ever permanent. 

Don't give up, I'm sure you have your whole life ahead of you, as I say. Short-term pain, long term gain. Buckle down for a bit, get through this mess and I'm sure you'll get something a lot better soon. 

Life won't ever be easy, but it'll test how well you do under pressure, you'll strengthen yourself after all problems mentally, even if you don't notice it. 

 

Also, don't look at these problems all together, but separate. Go through and fix them, one-by-one. Just focus on one and progress, even if it's slowly. Progress, is progress. 

Reach out to a close friend even, just to have a chat and nothing more. Or family.

 

Best of luck,

Always a PM away if you need anything (:

 

 

Thank you for your time writing a response, I really appreciate it. It makes me feel better that someone has time to read and give a response. I wish there's more people like you. 

I'll take your advices, and I'll remember this on future. 

[CaptainLevi02]

chipping in here.

 

 

This is life. I know it's blunt and quite rude, but to get to the point this is exactly as I said. 

Unfortunately life isn't a breezy, easy life. It's hard. Though every obstacle you pass by and keep kicking, is an obstacle in life you defeated.

 

You may have a large sum of problems at the minute and seem to be in a bit of a sludge but you will get out of it! It's not permanent whatsoever. 

 

 

Car is breaking down? - That's okay, it happens.. to literally nearly everyone? (Including me) there is a fix for this, numerous. Mechanic, walking, bike, public transportation. It's okay, you will get it fixed sooner or later. 

 

Bills due? - During these times bills may seem more daunting than usual. Every country is different, inquire if you're able to get extensions if you're struggling to pay. Ask for a payment plan even. (Sorry no clue, all Countries are different with operations so apologies if this isn't available) 

 

Girl Troubles? - Depending on it all, if it's toxic you should leave. It's not good for your mental health, and at the end of the day, you are the most important person to look after. Look after yourself first than do other things. If she's causing you to feel down, sad and what not constantly, leave. As hard as it is, it'll do more damage than good staying. 

 

Couldn't go back to college? - Curious as to why? I don't have much experience with Overseas College and what goes down here, but they have to have a good reason to refuse you to go back, right?   

 

 

All problems will have a solution, you may have to dig a bit deeper but there is always a solution and resolution. You may be a bit down now, but it'll turn around soon. It's never, ever permanent. 

Don't give up, I'm sure you have your whole life ahead of you, as I say. Short-term pain, long term gain. Buckle down for a bit, get through this mess and I'm sure you'll get something a lot better soon. 

Life won't ever be easy, but it'll test how well you do under pressure, you'll strengthen yourself after all problems mentally, even if you don't notice it. 

 

Also, don't look at these problems all together, but separate. Go through and fix them, one-by-one. Just focus on one and progress, even if it's slowly. Progress, is progress. 

Reach out to a close friend even, just to have a chat and nothing more. Or family.

 

Best of luck,

Always a PM away if you need anything (:

 

 

I tried to give you a positive rep but It wont let me, but thank you for the sympathy again! 

[Cake]

I tried to give you a positive rep but It wont let me, but thank you for the sympathy again! 

VIP and up is required for that, 

 

but don't worry about it, gratitude is better in words (: 

 

and no problem!

[Darkness]

Things like; someone stole my wallet with my whole rent money on it (I'm a essential worker) with my 3 months old son wic card (state help for milk) 

My car is breaking down

My bills are due

Girl unsatisfied and being toxic 

I couldnt go back to college

and more

Hey man, ending it isn't the only option. You'll get through this sooner or later, we were all in your position at one point.

 

Like the other man said, deal with those problems one at a time.

 

Also from my experiences, girls are just a waste of time & money, unless you want to get married and have kids.

[CaptainLevi02]

Hey man, ending it isn't the only option. You'll get through this sooner or later, we were all in your position at one point.
 
Like the other man said, deal with those problems one at a time.
 
Also from my experiences, girls are just a waste of time & money, unless you want to get married and have kids.

You right brotha, I appreciate your advice, we all go through the same, only the strong ones make it

[CaptainLevi02]

Life can be hard, bro. But keep
your head up. Every day waking Up is a blessing. One of my favorite sayings is “dios aprieta, pero no ahorca.” Meaning god will squeeze you, but he won’t choke you. Sending positive vibes your way bro.

I'm glad to hear that, just what exactly i need, I appreciate for the sympathy means a lot to me.